Posting nudes can be empowering for many people. It is not for me. And here's why.
The day to day looks very different from the fantasy. In fact, it looks pretty damned vanilla.
How do you reflect on your play sessions to understand more about your preferences and limits?
Polyamory often holds onto a very outdated view of what monogamy actually is, in practice, in today's more equitable world.
I'm always happy to chat about the kink journey if you are respectful and genuinely seeking information and advice.
I've been doing this a long time and did not have community or the Internet when I started. Just because I've "done it all" and haven't killed anyone doesn't mean that classes are beneath me.
Someone on Reddit reached out to me to ask for some advice. He and his wife were working on their developing FLR. It was a pretty common scenario - husband realizing he was submissive, wife comfortable in leading the household, but where do we go from here. This was my reply.
This was a conversation I had on Reddit with a very polite person who wanted some more information about my sadism practice. I re-wrote it to be a little more FAQ-like. Enjoy!
Being generally a polite, loving dominant can make it difficult for me to get in a headspace of humiliation. I think in pictures so the verbal is something I really need to work on.