There's good pain, and there's bad pain. You don't have to be a masochist to learn how to tolerate the good stuff.
Oh bondage! How many ways do I love thee? Lots!
Femdom should center on women and decenter men. My experiences at CFNM events underscore this philosophy, where the emphasis is placed on celebrating women's enjoyment rather than demeaning men.
What is objectification? Is it depersonalization? Humiliation? I have some thoughts.
Resistance is more than futile. It's annoying and a surefire way to stop play.