It's not about that.

Submission

Resistance is more than futile. It's annoying and a surefire way to stop play.
I am in my most dominant headspace when a man fully submits his physical self to me.
Many people think there's only one right way to do things. Or that there's some historically sacred way of being kinky. They are wrong.
One of the most common questions I see in the community is "How can I introduce kink to my vanilla partner?"
Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens...