Someone on Reddit reached out to me to ask for some advice. He and his wife were working on their developing FLR. It was a pretty common scenario - husband realizing he was submissive, wife comfortable in leading the household, but where do we go from here. This was my reply.
Being generally a polite, loving dominant can make it difficult for me to get in a headspace of humiliation. I think in pictures so the verbal is something I really need to work on.
His body is my fetish, and my touch is his.
Service must be done with intent and attention to detail. But submissives are not mind readers so there is also a responsibility on the Domme's part to make sure tasks are given with clear instructions and expectations.
So much of heterosexual femdom is fantasy. “Forced” feminization, “forced” bisexuality. Forcing you onto your knees or bending over a spanking bench. Forcing you to be bound so nefarious things can be done to your body by someone society has says is weaker than, less than you.
Resistance is more than futile. It's annoying and a surefire way to stop play.