The day to day looks very different from the fantasy. In fact, it looks pretty damned vanilla.
Service must be done with intent and attention to detail. But submissives are not mind readers so there is also a responsibility on the Domme's part to make sure tasks are given with clear instructions and expectations.
What is the most helpful service, for me? Personal assistant! And I'm not the only Domme that loves that.
I am in my most dominant headspace when a man fully submits his physical self to me.
Sometimes new Dommes struggle with the question of what can they make him do. It's not about femdom tropes.
Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens...