It's not about that.

Who Am I?

Well, hello there! Nice to see you! Looks like you found a random website about female-led relationships—aka femdom D/s—aka my lifestyle Domme site.

I am a 50-something-year-old cishet white woman living in the Southeast with my younger submissive partner, who is a man. I have been a member of various kink communities and have been “doing kink” for over 40 years now.

Am I an expert? A guru? A mentor? I think not. I have a lot of life experience, but it’s my life experience. Your mileage will indeed vary.

What will you find here? Well, all kinds of things. I’d suggest starting with the Frequently Asked Questions and going from there. I’ll be writing about dominance, submission, relationships, service, and anything else that comes to mind that is remotely related.

I will be offering some of my erotica writing, but not for free—there’s plenty of that on the interwebs for you to find (Literotica is a great resource). I’m also designing some swag, which I hope you will purchase and enjoy. Keep checking back for more fun designs for him and her.

I am not a professional Dominatrix. While I always appreciate small tokens of appreciation for the writing I make available for free, you absolutely do not have to give me anything to enjoy this website and the content therein. If you do choose to buy me a cup of coffee or a cocktail, you will have my thanks—but nothing else. There is no quid pro quo here.

I encourage you to reach out with questions that are respectful and on-topic.

I do not post photos of myself on this site, and you should not ask for one. I value my privacy, and I do not monetize my corporeal self. I am also in a committed D/s FLR relationship and require that you respect that.

Anyway, take a look around. New content is published pretty regularly, so please do check back from time to time. I appreciate you being here and hope something I share is of value to you.

- Domme Carog Liath

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Hey there! Thanks for visiting. Just a head’s up that this is NOT an adult content website but there are adult themes and discussions of adult relationships and activities. By entering this website you are acknowledging you are over the age of 18 and you understand that your experience may not personally align with my experience.