If it’s Monday, Wednesday, or Friday, we wake up and normally go to the gym together if we’re feeling so motivated. If it’s a Tuesday or a Thursday we sleep in a little bit. After we’re up I get my own coffee because I’m extremely particular about how it’s made. My partner may be putting clean dishes away and tidying the kitchen or putting laundry away before having his own coffee and watching some of his anime, or sitting with me on the patio during warmer weather.
He feeds the dogs at 8am and I log on for work at 8:00 or 9:00. He goes off to work around 10:00. If we don’t have anything to do that evening we will watch some of our shows, maybe fool around. I might require a foot massage, kind of depends on where the mood takes me. He tidies the kitchen before we go to bed and makes sure that the humidifier that’s in the bedroom is full and working. He might also sweep the house if I haven’t run the Roombas.
Weekends are a little less structured of course because we’re not working. On Saturdays I get up and see my horses in the morning. My partner is normally doing laundry and other housework. Saturday can be date night so we’ll go to the movies, out to dinner, or a social event with friends. Sunday is pretty chill – we’re usually just doing our own thing depending on the weather. Sometimes there’s a munch we go to together, or a hang with friends.
We have a scheduled S&M night so we keep that regular time to be a little more intentional in our kink time.