There was a great question on Discord: If you could have someone follow you around all day and assist you, what would you have them doing?
I have unmedicated ADHD, and I struggle most with all the tasks I tell myself, “I’ve got to get that done,” throughout the day. Having someone keep track of those tasks for me and hold me accountable for actually finishing them is invaluable. That kind of support is one of the most vital services my submissive partner provides for me.
Every day, I walk around my house and think, “Oh yeah, I’ve got to do that,” and, 99% of the time, it’s still sitting undone a week, a month, or even six months later. Now, when I notice something, I tell my submissive, and he writes it down. He helps me prioritize and actually complete those tasks.
There are plenty of things I enjoy doing myself or things that I have to do because I have the necessary knowledge that my submissive doesn’t. He can’t do absolutely everything for me, but he can keep me organized and maintain a running “to-do” list that actually gets done.