It's not about that.

These are a few of my favorite things…

having my laundry done including everything put away just how I like it
having a clean kitchen before bed
getting a foot massage after I’ve been baking for two days
my coffee made fresh before I walk in the kitchen
thoughtful little presents that show he’s been thinking about me
focus on our conversation
when he puts his phone down
holding his hand

The Standard Caveat: I am a cishet white American woman, early model GenX. All of my writing here is from my own experience and point of view. Please do not think I am promoting a gender or sexual orientation norm here. I am not qualified to speak from any other viewpoint than my own. I fully support all LGBTQAI+ people. Black Lives Matter. Trans women are real women. Yes, there is a patriarchy and yes it harms men as well as women.

Domme Carog Liath

It's not about that.