Almost every single image I see on FetLife of submissive women mid-scene reminds me of crime scene photos from serial killer cases.
You see the photos of my new flogger, or him wrapped up in shrink wrap, or my freshly bootblacked boots and have all kinds of thoughts about what that means for our relationship, but odd
Someone on Reddit reached out to me to ask for some advice. He and his wife were working on their developing FLR. It was a pretty common scenario - husband realizing he was submissive, wife comfortable in leading the household, but where do we go from here. This was my reply.
Being generally a polite, loving dominant can make it difficult for me to get in a headspace of humiliation. I think in pictures so the verbal is something I really need to work on.
His body is my fetish, and my touch is his.
Service must be done with intent and attention to detail. But submissives are not mind readers so there is also a responsibility on the Domme's part to make sure tasks are given with clear instructions and expectations.