I’ve had two occasions recently meeting new people (men) where there was instant chemistry. I’m not talking just about that body energy exchange either. Conversation, wit, intelligence, that *je ne sais quoi*. I spent over 2 hours on the phone (the actual phone) talking to one of them about all kinds of things.
If I meet someone and there’s a click but for whatever reason they aren’t interested in being inside my intimate orbit that’s totally fine. I don’t take it personally. Like on the apps – for every guy I swipe left on I’m sure 10 have swiped left on me.
But when there is clearly a mutual interest I’m not going to be coy. If I find you hot I’ll tell you. I’ll tell you when you’ve pleasantly surprised me. I’ll tell you I want to see you again. I’ll take your number and follow up.
I’m also not going to just play the Domme. I am a whole thing – a multi-dimensional universe. I know you are too. I’m going to have big talk with you. I want to know why you don’t talk to your dad, what your experience at your first sleep-away camp was, how you’ve dealt with relationships that have ended. I want you to stand naked in front of me not just literally. I’m curious about you and I’ll be very forward with that curiosity.
I’m not forward because life is too short. I’m forward because life is too interesting.