I have a private FB group with a small circle of my best girl friends. I share stuff about work and men and random things that you share with your most trusted inner circle.
One of my friends asked me to give some deets about a young man I’d been seeing somewhat regularly so I wrote it all down. Made me realize just how kind of special he is. I wrote down what he’s like as a person and how the chemistry is between us and all the little things – like during a lull in the conversation how we’ll just smile at each other and then laugh.
Might keep a little PG-13 journal about all the guys. I am emotional connection challenged but writing down the nice things is, well, nice. It makes me feel like I’m not a bad person.